For those of you that have been in long relationships.. whether your married or not... We all know relationships start out so sweet..fresh...Brand New..Refreshing...and exciting... and then you fall inlove with them...and everything seems happy go lucky around you.. Not a Worry in mind...
Then after awhile you both get really comfortable..and sooo comfortable sometimes you feel like you don't have to impress each other anymore..which is a good feeling.. But at the same time... could this be the cause of losing the spark some times?
i dont know..
Cause it feels like..You let some one know you so well... That they appreciate you in the inside.. But one thing i've really been thinking about is Sex appeal and attraction .. Sometimes i feel like when i look sexy for my boyfriend he'll say i look pretty... and then after that .. its AnyWays...When ofcourse before it used to be like ..Whenever i was with him... he'd have the mentality like [ oh man, you are soo beautiful... i love you....] and now we're both working and doin our own thing... and he doesn't have the desire to sEE me like he used to...he doesn't have the drive and i don't feel like im needed..
do us girls just sit and think too much.. or is there a common routine everyone else goes through that feels like the spark fades..
any advice?? cause i dont want the spark to fade..
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